Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, Three years ago, I decided to have my right Bartholin’s gland surgically removed (after two years of over five painful surgeries that attempted to r...