Estimated reading time: 8 minutes I ran into my friend Bethany* at the mall. She looked thinner, and her eyes had dark circles under them. After a hug, I inquired about her life. She and her husband, Dirk, though living under the same roof, had been carrying on separate lives for several years. Now, nearly 20 years into their marriage, he was filing for divorce. She shook her head and sighed. “I d...